The Greatest ICC World Cup and its lessons

After the long 7 week schedule of 48 matches between the world’s best teams and the nail-biting, wonderful neck to neck final in Lords on last Sunday with super overs and super excitement, the cricket fever has gone down and cricket conversations have been replaced with other trending and burning topics. But that’s not the case in my house, as the cricket is still going on and all thanks to #Hotstar, the highlights and replays are still being played 24X7 in my house and my kid is still crying along with Virat and Kane. So thought of listing down the lessons he is learning from them in this greatest ICC World Cup

  • Playing under pressure:

Out of all the 48 matches, the people who stood out as stars are the people who shined in the death overs and didn’t get crushed under the pressure. Most of the players shined at the start of the match or in the middle, but very few were there, who rose to the occasion and bailed out their teams from the tricky situation like Stokes from England team in the final, or like Jadeja from the Indian team.

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Most of the kids these days are running away from problems and the in-depth analysis from child psychologists point towards us, the parents, as we never put our kids under those stressful situations, as we were always rushing to save the kids from tricky situations. So these matches are good examples for us to build the growth mindset into our kids.

 

  •  Importance of Fitness & Diet:

In almost all the matches, the players are seen with bandaids/bandages across their arms and legs. But those wounds never deterred them to slide across the field or jump to catch the balls. We can see All this can be possible, only if they are really fit and sound. In fact, some of the players have mentioned about their fitness routines also in their interviews with the media. Luckily for me, my kid’s favorite player Burmah has even mentioned about the healthy diet regime he follows. So this is one lesson, which we have to inculcate in our kids and take them away from the junk foods. Nowadays, eating junk foods has become a fad and kids are shying away from healthy foods.

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In case, if you remember the Afghanistani batsman (#Shahidi) getting hurt and even after being advised to retire back hurt, how he continued batting. Same is the case with the Australian wicketkeeper and batsman (Carey). Even after getting hurt badly on the chin, he kept on playing in the semi-final. Both these players displayed the grit and determination to play for their teams even after getting hurt badly. This, in turn, proved to be a good lesson for my kid about the will power and determination required to be successful in life.

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  • Human Emotions:

If we look at the match at a very high level, its nothing but a binary game and there would be only winners and losers that’s all. But the heart of the game lies in the human emotions that get played along with the sport. There would be grit and determination to win on one side. But the true sportspersons will never be far from the emotions like empathy and encouragement. Though they are winning, encouraging the other team to give their best can be seen very clearly in this world cup series.

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As this being Malingas last world cup series, and India vs Sri Lanka his last match, though, for the spirit of cricket, Indians were seen hitting Malinga’s balls to boundaries, but at the same time, talking to him and cheering him as well.  Same is seen, in the gesture of Stokes during the final, when England got 6 runs from an overshot ball. These are the lessons, I would like my kid to carry forward. Empathizing with the other party and encouraging them to give their best to the game. There were no scenes of angry outbursts during the defeating moments nor there were unprofessional displays of celebrations. All we could see were the dignified moments of glory and defeat.

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My Kid has learned that it’s OK to feel sad for the defeat, but there would be another day to showcase his talent. At this moment, he has to congratulate the winner. This behavior was exemplified by the dignified behavior of Kane Williamson and Virat Kohli too. So how to manage one’s emotions is the lesson learned from this series. Another important lesson he learned during this #ICC World Cup series is the way cricketers were behaving respectfully towards senior players.

As a mom, I am happy that my kid has learned a couple of important life lessons from the entire series and we got to witness the greatest cricket ever played. Maybe we might not witness the super overs again, but we do remember and recall Kane Williamson and Morgan during every world cup final. They both have proved time and again that Cricket is indeed a gentle man’s game.

 

 

 

 

 

Top 7 lessons from ICC Worldcup 2019 for my kid

As the ICC Worldcup Cricket fever has gripped out the entire nation, even my 6-year-old kid wasn’t spared from this fever. I was kind of amused to see him talk and breathe only cricket from last 15 days. Anyone who visits my house these days is forced to have to serious cricket talk with him and no kid talk is allowed.  Even the people who don’t have interest in Cricket are not spared from my kid’s lessons on the ICC world cup,  various teams playing in it and how each team is unique in their styles.

All he started talking these days are the yorkers and clean sweeps. He breathes, eats and dreams only about Cricket nowadays. He is still not clear as to what would he like to become, a batsman, or a bowler. Even Umpiring and commentary seems to interest him these days.

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ICC World Cup Cricket 2019

I am very happy to say that, Cricket has taught him a few of the tricks and he is able to spend hours together playing as the bowler or the fielder. This independent play is something I could only dream off but never was able to achieve it till date. All I could do these days is to just hope and pray, that he doesn’t hurt himself while imitating the fielders from the matches. Already he hurt his upper lip while doing a flip to catch an imaginary sixer from Rohit. The lip got swollen and he couldn’t eat properly for two days. But believe me, it didn’t dampen his spirits. Instead, now he uses his gymnastics mat as the field so that he wouldn’t get hurt.

The Top 7 lessons my kid learned from ICC Worldcup are as follows, which are in fact the skills for the life:

  • Patriotism:

This time in all the World Cup matches, the national anthems of both the competing nations were played after the toss. Being a curious boy, my kid started identifying not only those nations geographical locations in the world map, but he started identifying their national anthems as well. This has helped him in appreciating our national anthem more. Respecting our national anthem is the first step towards the patriotism. These matches not only made my kid a patriot, but they have given him a chance to appreciate the uniqueness of each and every nation.

  • Sportsman spirit: 

Earlier, before the start of the ICC World Cup, like any other typical single kid, my kid always wanted to win and used to cry if he gets lost. But seeing the teams appreciate their opponents for a well-played sixer or a good catch made him understand that the true sportsman would appreciate the other players too. The player’s behavior in these matches has changed his thinking and he started appreciating the opponents as well. No wonder, Cricket is called the “Gentleman’s Game” in earlier days.

  • Team spirit:

Working in teams and appreciating the other team members was seen at its best in this ICC World Cup 2019 series. People waiting for the other batsman to complete his half a century or willingly giving the chance to hit the last shot of the game to the other person was seen very clearly in this game. Even a small kid of mine could understand this and started asking me questions. So the “Me First” syndrome has been completely erased from my kid’s brain by watching this series.

  • Leadership skills:

Captains of all the teams across the board have shown excellent leadership skills in this series. Noteworthy here is the Virat’s communications with his team when India is bowling and the way the fielders and bowlers were delivering as per his guidance. The way, Kohli was stepping out of the limelight, to give his team member’s that place is very commendable and it really gave me a chance to explain about the leadership qualities to my kid.

  • Importance of Rigorous Practise:

The way, cricketers were moving across the field very fluidly and taking the flips and falling on to the ground for catches, shows their body fitness. This, in fact, stresses the importance of the regular practice as otherwise, the cricketers wouldn’t be in form. Even in one of the interviews, I think an Afghanistan player mentioned that they should have practiced more to avoid that day’s trouble in one of the matches they played. That got imprinted into my kid’s mind. Even Bumrah mentioned how hard he practices regularly in one of his interviews. Bumrah being my kid’s all-time favorite, he started taking his words very religiously and now I can see him practice hard.

  • Working under pressure:

The death overs are the perfect examples of how each and every individual behaves when they have to work under pressure. As usual, there are few people who bow down to this pressure, and there are a few examples who wouldn’t loose their cool even when the pressure is standing in front of them. They play really so well amidst the audience shouts and the pressure of winning the match. Playing with concentration is one thing that even a small kid could observe as an important trait that’s needed for a true sports person.

  • Adherence to Diet:

Fortunately, this time around the cricketers when giving interviews was talking about how strict they are about their diet and how important a healthy diet is for their overall performance. Years of my hard work to convince my kid to eat healthy food has been made easy due to this series.

I couldn’t believe myself, that a series of Cricket matches can play a vital role in the development of my kid and teach him the important lessons of life, which as a parent, was trying to teach for so long. I guess this incident reiterates the importance of sports during the student’s life. No wonder they say

A Healthy body leads to Healthy Mind and playing Sports leads to Healthy Body 

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Lessons from ICC World Cup 2019 for my Kid

5 Routines to spend Quality time with Kids during School days

Most of the schools have opened back post the summer holidays to add to the stress of parents, especially the moms. As parents, we are always with our schedules and our deadlines. So when we are neck-deep in completing one task after the other, obviously the time spent with the kids would be taking a toll.

But most of the moms say that they always spend my time with the kids, cooking for them, making them do their homework and various other projects/assignments, driving them and back to the extra classes. So, where is the need for extra quality time and where do we find that extra time? And dads argue that most of their time is spent only in the office as they have to work hard so that they can support their families. As per their argument, its tough survive in the office, considering how competitive the world has become. But kids are the ones who are getting neglected in this whole process. And they still won’t have the way to express their inner needs which is to spend quality time with their parents.

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How to Spend Quality Time with Kids during the School Sessions

More and more studies show that the parents who spend their time with the kids on a one on one basis, have a better connection with their kids and the kids are less prone to the problems during their teenage (which is very crucial for them). This quality time improves the kid’s self-confidence and self-esteem.  So here are my simple tips that will enable all the parents to spend their time with the kids.

Morning Routine:

As soon as the kid wakes up as the natural instinct, the kid would be searching for his mom and that’s the time when as a mom, we have to give our undivided attention to the kid for just 5 minutes with the kid, cuddling them and if they are ready for the morning exercises, involve them for few stretches and squats.  If they are not ready for exercises, listen to the soothing music in the morning just by sitting next to the kid. All this takes just 5 minutes.

Before the School Routine:

While sending the kid to the school, preparing him for the day ahead is of utmost importance, as the kid needs to face the world without you and have to continuously concentrate on learning in the schools. So it’s the time for you to be creative in inventing a fun routine to spend time with the kid. It can be a song or a small dance number which you would like to do with your kid. Or at least a small prayer to keep the day going.

After the School Routine:

While picking up the kid from school, set aside all your work and devote some time completely to the kid. Instead of hurrying them to change the uniform and send them to other activities, please spend those 5 minutes, unwinding along with the kid by doing his favorite activity. This time would definitely set the mood for the entire evening for him.

Bedtime rituals:

Bedtime rituals are a must in each and every family. Instead of letting the kid fall asleep on his own, read him a story or sing a lullaby to him. Have a pillow talk with him, when all the lights are switched off in the room. This is the time when you can really boost his confidence by providing positive suggestions. Even if the corrections are required in the kid’s behavior, do positively tell him. Positive suggestions get implemented faster than negative suggestions and corrections.

Weekend Routine:

The weekend is the time, where you can build a few family traditions into your family. Take the help of kids, plan the weekend nights (it can be a movie night or dinner outside in the garden or camping out in the night, sleepover in other rooms of the house, game nights). Plan stuff, which you also can enjoy. If nothing else works out for you, at least try and learn an activity along with the kids. Kids enjoy playing a teacher role to the parent.

 

Time flies very fast and it’s on us as parents to steal a few chunks of time from our busy schedule, so that we can have our quality time with the kids. So that the kids could have wonderful memories to recollect in the later stages of their life. These memories are the ones which would drive our kids to have stronger connections with their kids so that life comes full circle back with our grandchildren.